“Choosing” to hold bad feelings toward a person who has repented.
Repent means — admitted it to themselves, stopped it and lying about it, confessed it to you and God, and asked you to forgive them for what they have done to you. See 1 John 1:1-10, Matthew 18:15-35, Matthew 5:22-24
See What Is Bitterness?
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